Who are you?

I’m Matthew, a 20-something male. I’m nerdy, artistic, and I use the Oxford Comma.

The Oxford what?

Nerdy joke. Just go with it.

Okay… What’s your orientation?

I’m straight in regards to sex, but I also do BDSM play, in which I am a Dominant/Master/Sadist and play equally with both sexes.

Dominant? But I’ve chatted with you, and you don’t seem that demanding…

I said “Dominant”, not “Dick”. I know they’re often conflated, but they don’t have to be.

Single?

Nope - I am in a poly relationship with my fiancee, who is also my slave. She posts pictures on here too, sometimes.

What are your kinks?

Well, I enjoy pretty much all aspects of vanilla sex, and also enjoy giving floggings, canings, whippings, spankings, bondage, and knife play… but my absolute greatest kink is getting other people off. As a result, I love dirty talk, as it lets me know exactly how turned on my partner is, and I love doing things to people that they enjoy at a pace I dictate. I also love questions, investigating people’s sexuality, and finding out just what gets them off. I get no pleasure from doing something to someone that they find unpleasant; as a result, I’ve been called a “headspace Dom”, and have been told that I’m a very caring lover.

That… was a long answer.

Get used to it. ;)

I’m not sure I understand XXX aspect of BDSM/sex/Doctor Who/etc that you mentioned…

Feel free to ask me! I’d love to help give advice in any way that I can, with what humble experience I posses. 

Will you answer privately?

Always, if your not anon. I may ask you if I can publish something, but I never will without your permission.

Will you promote my blog?

Not by request. I do occasionally do promos, but only for blogs that I really like and really think need to take up my follower’s time. :) You may feel free to ask, though, but all I can promise is that I’ll take a look.